The top partner can also lean over to play with the giving partner's clit or finger them, and this position also works as a great segue into ing. In this position, one partner wears a strap-on and the other sits on top of it and slides up and down. It's straightforward well, queer-forward but versatile. Stimulating and penetrating your partner with your hands in such a small space can make things even more exciting especially if you're really flexible. A bonus of missionary sex with a strap-on: Plus, depending on how much access your partner's harness gives you, you can manually stimulate their clit, use a toy or vibrator, or penetrate them while you blow them. Some people love the ability to feel themselves penetrating their partner," Dr. And as always, you do you. The partner providing the tongue stimulation kneels on the floor and goes to town they can add a pillow under their knees for extra comfort. Use rope, bondage tape , or even a scarf or tie to restrain a partner's hands before going down on them. Sure, people take some tips and tricks with them from partner to partner, but in the end communication will win. Your inexperience here is a complete non-issue in terms of skill. Kneeling can also be as intimate as a face-to-face position: Sophie Saint Thomas Sex between two women is a beautiful thing. Are We Supposed to Make Noises? After all, if the person going down on you feels more comfortable, they'll be able to eat you out for longer.