However, this is rarely the case. Get to know your husband as a human being. Neither should reject the other, unless there is some lawful excuse. Islam prohibits and condemn illicit sexual relations, extra-maritial affairs, pre-marriage sex, fornication, adultery, prostitution, pornography and promiscuity. Abu Dhar al-Ghafari reported: Neither respect nor love are things that can be forced--they have to be worked for, and earned. Indeed, many husbands eventually become disappointed with their wives, believing them to be frigid or unable to respond to their activities unlike the sirens on the film or TV screen , and they wonder what is wrong with them. If the husband calls the wife to bed, can she say no? The forum does not change anything from questions, comments and statements received from our readers for circulation in confidentiality. He added that old age can also be a reason. If one has committed themselves to the sacred institution of marriage, then indeed it would be their duty to fully cooperate and satisfy this natural and physical demand and appetite of their spouse. The damage in this case could sometimes be irreparable, because a woman, unlike a farm, is very sensitive and has emotions, feelings, and strong passions which need full satisfaction and attention in a proper and appropriate manner. When a wife does not responds to a sexual call of a husband repeatedly and continously he is advised to marry another woman for his pleasure but if a man continuously refuses to have a sex with his wife and he seeks ways to run off from her but he maintains her very nicely with his income then what is she suppose to do to release her desires? It is by making one's sex life more than simple physical gratification; it is by thought for pleasing Allah by unselfish care for one's partner. This is not the proper forum to discuss actual sexual methods.