In the aftermath of this incident, I told a lot of my buddies the story. The tone of rough sex is different than the sweet, sultry allure of a typical night. Not everyone will be into using a ball gag, but if both of you are into really rough sex this can be an intense way of shifting the power dynamic and giving you a ton of control to take charge while still figuring out a safe gesture or sign in case she needs you to stop. Here's a little anatomy lesson and how it relates to sex. In spite of your good intentions, the rough sex can trigger flashbacks and bad memories. Like the Apostle Thomas, I had to see this for myself. They like to be thrown around. I was even disappointed he wasn't more aggressive with me…. It's all about psychology; if you ravage a woman, she can believe that you were in control and she was the damsel in distress. But in the bedroom, between consenting partners , this is where you have a little fun with rough sex. Over the next several minutes, she taunted and laughed at me while I struggled to get her shorts off, pushing me off periodically with her powerful haunches, slinking loose of any pin move, using her massive thigh strength to crush me, and holding the smile on her face the entire time. Figuring this was her odd, abrupt way of halting things, I sat up, ready to call it a night, only to be kangaroo kicked in the chest with both her massive legs. Most of you are literally are genetically inclined to be attracted to women who are not overweight aside from a fat ass or big breasts-to a degree.