It will be very disappointing — not to mention humiliating — if you did try to have sex with a woman and ended up being rejected on the spot. If you're already in the bedroom and part -- or most -- of your clothes are off, then it is time to ask her for confirmation that she is ready to take things to the next level. If she comes over, pats your bed, and says it's "really comfortable," then she may be hinting that she wants to lie down on it with you. The more she shows interest in you, the more her heart rate starts rapidly increasing. They need a lot of time. If she pushes you away every time you try to touch her breasts, take off her shirt, or touch her below the belt, then she is definitely not ready. Don't show the condoms to her or creep her out, but have them at your disposal just in case she is ready. Some girls give oral sex way before they're ready to have sex, while others aren't comfortable giving oral sex until after sex -- or they don't give it at all. When girls repeatedly lick their lips, it is a surefire sign of them to be with you in bed. Not all of them are out to tease you. And this makes your efforts on grooming yourself stand out for her She wants to flatter you so that you can warm up to her and become at ease when the subject of sex comes up. If you thought that was just an excuse that women concocted in an exclusive secret society while the men were out hunting… think again! While there is no clear indication that she wants to have sex, she still may be interested in being alone with you. Intimate places are your thighs, behind your ears, neck and even your chest. She wants to know if you are interested in developing a long-term relationship with her or just using her as a one night stand. As stated earlier, they are complicated beings. And once you are ruling this period with patience, showing continuous signs of interest in her, then she is all yours.