As Stanley uses the example: If you never been married or are under thirty, even if you have lived with someone you underestimate the complexity of your sexuality and the long-term ramifications of your sexual conduct. For the first three years we met every other Sunday night in rented facilities, and when the Olympics came to town, we were unable to meet for nine weeks. Practice makes perfect does not apply to sex. It was so exciting with the preparations building our new church; however, I relocated, for work to Florida in and have been here since. So flawed people bring problems into a marriage and bringing others into the mix like children will not solve the underlying problem. While the material in the discussion guide is intended for use with the video, some of the discussion questions will also reflect content used in the book. Later the land was purchased in Alpharetta, GA and construction began —what is now North Point —some great times, a huge singles group, and many budding friendships grew out of this fabulous foundation. The New Rules for Love, Sex, and Dating is a discussion guide developed for use with the four-session video, which complements and expands the material in the book. Overview 1 The Right Person Myth 2 Gentleman's Club 3 Designer Sex 4 If I Were You This book is also meant for married couples as well as singles and even for those, like myself not dating but may have grown single children or grandchildren, or for use in the leadership of young adults. Your preparation now is worth much more than your commitment later. What you can control is what you do in the meantime. You can choose to express your sexuality outside the parameters of that divine design. No matter where you are in your life or your spiritual journey — it will change how you think about the present and the future. Whether you still in the game, or back in a season of looking for the love of your life, this book can help. However, since I lived in Buckhead, was thrilled when in , became a part of the Buckhead Church and again we held services in rented facilities in different areas of town. Andy Stanley is a former pastor of mine, and have enjoyed his teachings, Christian leadership, and his insightful books, as well as his father, Dr.