The point is to become more in touch with yourself and tap into what works for you. A man can masturbate and cum on the sigil or runestave to the same end, or the symbols can be drawn on the bodies of the lovers during ritual, so their orgasm empowers the symbols and the spell is released. No matter what you choose, remember that lust is a powerful thing — are you ready? Britta first became aware of the potential spiritual aspects of sex through her experiences as a sex worker. Have sex in an outdoor location with land, sea and sky all present to invoke a deity, or to raise energy for a rite or working. Lady of the Abyss, a witch and founder of the modern witchcraft site Witches of the Craft , said that the core belief of any witch is that "there is no other power in this universe greater than her own. Giphy Discover your practice. With sex magic, you can call a new person to you or you might simply want to encourage your partner to be a little more exciting in the bedroom. I have to add a note here about sex and initiation: Crowley wrote extensively on sex magic, some of which works were published and made available to the general public, others of which were secret and could only be obtained by initiates of O. He believed that the suppression of the sexual instinct was the root cause of the violence and other evils of the modern world. The more you're surrendering into the experience, the more often states of erotic trance and transcendent sex take place. Historically, love magic was often associated with prostitutes and courtesans, who were deemed to hold psychological power over their partners, and this sometimes led to dramatic measures such as witchcraft accusations and trials. You will want to make sure you are ready to be desired and chased by this person. She connects sex with her practice because "they're both powerful tools for shifting consciousness and require the ego to let go, to surrender to something greater," she told Mic. Britta is currently writing a thesis on the connection between healing, sex, psychedelics and magic.