These are illustrated on the Tantra videos which show separate sexual techniques for men and women, as well as Tantric sexual techniques for couples. CAT differs from Missionary in a few key ways. Girl on Top This position, also known as The Cowgirl, allows her to have the most control of her orgasm. In the very earliest Tantric systems, the woman led the rituals, and initiated men into it. This allows you to grind against him. So while you think you're pleasing her she might actually be putting on a show — and this needs to stop. This Tantra video has some poetic descriptions of sexual and sensual energies - descriptions which alone make it worth the cost, because they bring to life the reality of sensual and sexual energy exchange and genuine spiritual connection between love-partners. However, some women argue that a clitoral orgasm is not as profound as a vaginal orgasm, obtained by G spot stimulation. A Guide To The Coital Alignment Technique The rocking up and down motion may seem a bit awkward when first practiced but it is easy to do once you get the right pace and the rhythm that suits you. Having him kiss and lick these hot spots will intensify the pleasure you feel, and the slower you rock back and forth on each other, the slower you'll work up to orgasm. Tantric practices are shown very sensitively, followed by discussion and interview which explain it all, to produce a deep understanding of the theory behind the techniques. The great thing about 69 is that you can both stay horizontal on the bed or under the covers as you align your bodies and treat yourself to seriously pleasurable mouth moves. And when a woman reaches orgasm during intercourse, sex is much better for both the man and the woman. The more aroused you are before your man even gets between your legs, the more likely you are to have an orgasm during penetration. As a result, the up and down rocking movement will constantly stimulate the clitoris and effectively help his partner reach orgasm quickly.