I came to my garden, my sister, my bride, I gathered my myrrh with my spice, I ate my honeycomb with my honey, I drank my wine with my milk. Using delicate, romantic language and metaphors, it describes a beautiful, affectionate, romantic, sensuous, joyful and passionate love between husband and wife. Also check our home page for more articles about the Catholic faith! There are no negative statements in the book. There are no commands to pray before having sex. Whatever is done, it should be fully agreed on between the husband and his wife. Unity Comes Through True Vulnerability. They attempt to defend their viewpoint on biblical grounds—trying to make it into a holiness issue. His desire for foreplay culminating in sexual intercourse is being described. Jesus , the creator and eternal Son of God, who lived a sinless life, loves us so much that He died for our sins, taking the punishment that we deserve, was buried , and rose from the dead according to the Bible. We are aware that some have tried to make a biblical issue out of what parts of the body a married couple can and cannot kiss. Shivani Sachdev Gour, fertility expert, Phoenix Hospital, states, " Oral sex is wrongly related to the culture of the country and is not merely considered as an act of pleasure. It is not moral, even for married couples, to seek to achieve male orgasm outside of normal intercourse. Just keep the marriage bed undefiled.